Duffe

Why do people say that you have to have good communication skills? I'm terrible at this, and I am still working on it. I hope one day I could be able move people into my circle of influence. I am reminded everyday that I have to be convincing, persistent and work on my communication skills generally. Personally, I try everyday, but if it does not show to others, then I must be failing. I mean, who would understand someone who has difficulty communicating his/her feelings, opinions and thoughts? Fact is, its lonely if you can't communicate well. It's like a basic instinct to be heard. I had no problem with this growing up. I was the 'Question Box' - the one who has one too many questions to ask about everything. Then, puberty kicked in and grew silent, withdrawn and basically keep to myself. I don't have a listener, maybe. But as I grew up, I began to 'widen-out', started making new friends, spend more time outdoors and basically le